Thank you, Waterbear. I appreciate your precision.
I had the water tested at a pool store with computerized readouts and verified my reading of test strips. With the Frog, Br can be as low as 1, so I'm happy with that, at least for now. My comment that it "feels balanced" was more of an intuitive sense based on water clarity, pH stability, lack of foaming and odor.
I followed your suggestion of lowering pH and then raising TA. Things are much closer now.
I wonder if you could put up a sticky with simple instructions of which chemicals and processes to use to routinely raise/lower pH and alkalinity. I thought I had read here previously that washing soda was good for raising pH with minimal effect on TA, whereas baking soda would raise TA with little effect on pH; and that aeration was an effective way to raise pH. You suggest here that washing soda is not useful for hot tubs. I'd actually enjoy understanding the (basic) chemistry of each addition.
The other sticky I'd love to see would describe the actual chemistry for a bromine tub. What happens to the sodium bromide with addition of oxidizer (Cl or O3 or non-chlorine shock); does the bromine dissipate with use or convert back to NaBr; what is the effect of sunlight on the bromine reserve and active bromine; etc.
Thanks again.