well I ended up draining it and clearing all hoses and refilling it. Now the jet pump wont turn on at all. The light on the panel says jets on and red light at p19 on the circuit board turns on. My question now would be am I able to plug the pump onto Jet pump 2 on the board? if not I'm going to take the relay off and solder a new one on. Second question would be am I able to hard wire 120v from an outlet to the pump just to see if the pump still works, this would be temporary just to see that its worth replacing the 18v relay.
And no problem for my service it was an honor to serve and I'm 90% disabled from an IED over there but in the long run I now get a nice check every month so no complaints.