Thank you for your post. I feel better already. On the alkalinity, isn't it the adjusted alkalinity number I need to be concerned about? My understanding is that the total alkalinity test reads both cyanurates and carbonates/bicarbonates, so if you have high CYA, your total alkalinity will read high too, so there is a mathematical adjustment to get to the real measurement of carbonates/bicarbonates, which is what you want at around 100.
Though if alkalinity really doesn't matter much for over winter I won't worry about it and will work on that in the spring when hopefully the CYA will be lower too. My main goal is to get it so nothing bad happens to the pool, pipes or filter over the winter (we are hiring the pool company to actually winterize and close the pool, so I just want to make sure I'm doing whatever is needed to balance the water). Also anything I can do now to make it easier to get the water balanced in the spring I would like to do.