Thanks for the detailed answer, here's most of the extra info you asked for.
1) I don't know if it will be cantilevered but I will be asking that now and will let you know.
2) We're looking at doing a small pool, about 390-400 sqft of surface area, pretty much square with just a few odd spots in the perimeter, 4,5,4 depths.
3)No vanishing edge.
4)We discussed this with another builder and he mentioned the decking might crack in a locked system if the decking extended out past the edge of the rebar that was connected to the pool shell (because that decking would shift and the pool shell wouldn't) so we decided if we went with this option we would be separating off sections of the decking from the decking surrounding the pool.
5)No on the automatic pool cover.
6)I'm not sure how high our water table is, but it being Arizona and since we have had no warnings I would assume it won't be an issue, I am going to check with the house builder on that today.
7)I don't know the concrete or rebar thickness information, we were told that they add a fiberglass-like reinforcement to the concrete however to increase its strength. I believe the rebar spacing was going to be 6-12' varying depending on the location within the shell.
Thanks again! I've been looking for friends that have worked with the company that might have gotten this but I never would have considered asking the company themselves.