I do not usually post but i could not resist. You really need to find a decent electrican or someone that knows alot about electrical to verify that the heater is coming on when it should. i feel you heater is coming on with other things. ie pump or pump statge 2. A person with the right electrical meter and a hours time will tell you exactly what is happening. your problem could be a number of things, but it may be as simple as a wire in the wrong place.