I fully understand because this time last year I was at same point. After a lot of research on pools and requirements, I knew that I wanted a Fiberglass Viking/CPC pool due to reliability and depth of size 8 x 18 x 6 deep. Through Viking I was hooked-up with a terrrible builder who was out of Winstom Salem/Charlotte. It's a long, but good story ....but we ended-up getting the pool we needed and building it all ourselves. It can be done. We live near Burlington and if it would help, you could call me at 336-449-4734 where I can share more info. We so love our pool and swiming while it was snowing a few weeks ago was worth it all.
You can see it here:
http://www.troublefreepool.com/viewtopic.php?t=3978
http://www.troublefreepool.com/viewtopic.php?t=818
the stuff we have in the pool that may also help you is:
Viking/CPC 6,500 gal shaphire blue fiberglass shell
0.75 HP Jandy Stealth Pump (Filtration System)
0.75 HP Hayward (booster pump) { this was not needed and wish I had not done so- the enclosure and oversizing of the pool filter makes the difference}
4 HP Speck Pump - Badu Jet StreamII system
Jandy CJ250 single cart. Pool Filter
Jandy Lite2 LJ125K BTU propane gas heater
Solar heater, Aquatherm Sys w/6 panels
Hayward Phantom Pool Vac { this was not needed and wish I had not done so- the enclosure and oversizing of the pool filter makes the difference}
(A) Jandy 2” Never-Lube 3-port valves (2)
( Jandy 2” Never-Lube 2-port valve (5)
(Ck) Jandy 2” Never-Lube Check Values valve (1)
© Jandy JVA 2440 Actuators (2)
Asahi 4” PVC Butterfly valve w/ flanges (2)
Auto Water-Leveler
Fiberstar Fiber Optic circumferential lighting
Handrails/anchors/cover
Jandy Control Interface – PDAP8 Aqualink
Jandy Sub-Panel Power Center (6614AP700)
Jandy Purelink 7-blade Salt Chlorine Generator
Simple 'fish spitter' water accent and (2) Jandy Deck Jets