So...after taking the summer off I decided to take another crack at this. With the hot tub drained I thought it would be a good idea to try replacing the last thing that I hadn't replaced thus far which was the heater. Filled up the tub and have been problem free for over a week. I'm really not sure if it was just the heater as these heating elements have 3 components: the element, the pressure switch and the sensor. I had replaced the pressure switch and the sensor on the previous heater and it didn't fix it so I would think those weren't the issue however it is possible that I didn't install them right. The other possiblity (and its a strech) is that when I first installed this hot tub last year it worked fine for the first week and then I noticed I had a leak. I used the FIx a Leak stuff and it seemed to stop the leak however I always wondered if that compound affected the heating element. At first the hot tub would shut off past 101 but after taking the original element apart and cleaning what I could see, the hot tub would then get up to 102 before shutting off. Anyway....all food for thought.
If I could do it all over again, I would have replaced just the heater for the $150 it cost verus the sensor (technican and sensor was $200) or the pressure switch $20. Anyway...hindsight is 20/20.